From “finstas” to “poggers” and “GRWM”, a new study has unveiled the growing list of teen slang terms and social media abbreviations that have become second nature to the younger generation. But for many parents, these terms can be completely baffling.
Leading the list of most confusing slang is “finsta” (43%), a term that may sound familiar to fans of the TV show Amandaland. A “finsta” is a fake Instagram account, usually a “parent-friendly” version created to maintain privacy while still engaging in social media. The survey found that 27% of teens admit to having a hidden social media account, meaning many parents may not be aware of the full extent of their child’s online presence.
Other terms that leave parents scratching their heads include “GRWM” (39%), which stands for “get ready with me” and typically accompanies videos showcasing makeup routines or outfit choices. Meanwhile, “poggers” (39%) is used to express enthusiasm or excitement, and “moots” (39%) refers to mutual followers.
More terms making the list include “OOTD” (37%), which stands for “outfit of the day”, and “CL” (37%), shorthand for “can’t lie” (sometimes written as “ICL” for “I can’t lie”). “Clappered” (35%) means “worn out,” often used by teens to describe feeling exhausted.
The research, commissioned by Tesco Mobile, found that many teens are aware of their parents’ attempts to keep an eye on their social media activity. In fact, 37% of teens believe their parents are spying on them, with a fifth (19%) using a secondary or “spam” account that they allow their parents to follow, carefully curating its content.
For others, privacy is a bigger concern. A third (34%) go as far as adjusting their privacy settings to hide their stories and posts from their parents, while 26% have blocked a family member altogether.
Emma Herridge, Marketing Director at Tesco Mobile, said: “It’s a universal truth that parents want to keep their kids safe and it’s brilliant when TV shows spark conversation and reflect the reality that many families are dealing with. Our research shows just how much of children’s online activity goes unnoticed. By fostering open conversations, parents can feel more confident navigating the digital world with their children.”
Sheena Peckham, Content Lead at Internet Matters, added: “As parents navigate the ever-evolving social world with their teens, open and honest conversations are essential. We recommend starting conversations from an early age and maintaining an ongoing dialogue about their online activities. Parents can use the supervision tools and teen accounts built into some popular social media platforms. In addition to ensuring that their devices have age-appropriate apps and the right parental controls, setting clear boundaries is crucial.”
Among the 25 slang terms decoded for parents, here are a few others to watch out for:
- N00b (31%) – A newbie or inexperienced person.
- Rizz (28%) – Refers to someone’s style or attractiveness.
- Aura (28%) – Someone who is cool or confident.
- Cap/No Cap (28%) – Telling a lie or telling the truth.
- Goated (27%) – Greatest Of All Time (GOAT).
- BRAT (26%) – A confident, rebellious person.
- Clout (24%) – Someone with power, influence, or popularity.
- Bussin’ (24%) – Something exciting or great.
- Snatched (23%) – Someone who is attractive or well-styled.
- Bet (23%) – Used to express approval or agreement.
- Mid (22%) – Something mediocre or average.
- Drip (22%) – A stylish outfit or accessory.
